To Succeed With Women, Start By Finding ThemArticle Source: Dating Books For Men. Copyright 2008
Author: Joseph Matthews
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To quote comedian Chris Tucker - "It's Friday, you ain't got no job, and you ain't got sh*t to do!"
Well, he may be wrong. In all likelihood you DO have a job AND you have things to do. But are you doing the things you WANT to be doing? Are you actually getting out there to meet some women?
Friday night is generally the BEST night of the week to go out if you want to meet women.
Think about it:
The week has been long and hard. People are getting off work, and tomorrow is wide open - they can sleep in as late as they want. They are hoping to unwind and work off some stress. In other words...
They are venturing out to have fun!
And what does having fun mean? Well, for the ladies, having fun on Friday night means - MEETING A MAN!
That's correct. We go out to meet women. And they go out to meet us!
So the question you ought to be asking yourself is this: Are they going to meet YOU?
This answer is important. It can mean the difference between you getting laid or ending up quietly sobbing in the shower.
So - next question - how are these women going to be able to meet you?
Well, clearly, this is entirely up to you. I can offer some suggestions that will help you, but honestly, it's up to you to make it happen.
The most important thing you can do to make sure that women will be able to meet you tonight is...
Are you ready?
GET OUT OF THE HOUSE!
So, step number one is easy. But you MUST get yourself out and go to where the women are hanging. This can mean going out with friends, or, if they aren't available, go out by yourself!
The point I am making here is that if you DON'T go out, you have a zero percent chance of meeting any women at all. (I am talking about REAL women who could go home with you TONIGHT! Not internet women).
The second step is **go to where the women are!**
This is VERY important. Bars and clubs are a good bet to find women. But you have other options available to you if that's not your scene:
- Happy Hour
--Yes, I know that this is a bar thing. But, happy hour normally occurs BEFORE things get too hectic. So if you are older, this may prove to be a good alternative to competing with all those youngsters out there. Most women go directly to happy hour after work, and only later go home to change for a night out on the town. This provides a GREAT opportunity for you to initiate a date for LATER THAT EVENING.
- Bookstores & Coffee Shops
--If you prefer a more laid back approach, bookstores and coffee shops can be great places to check out on a Friday night. If you can find a coffee shop that stays open until late, all the better! In general, the women here are quieter - the bookworm, wallflower types. So it may prove a little more challenging to engage them, but it will be easier to guide them into a conversation.
- Hotel Lobbies & Bars
--No, I am not talking about the lobby of your local "Day's Inn." What I am referring to are the NICE hotels in your area - the 4 & 5 star kind with valet parking and an upscale bar area. These places can be great to meet women, especially when you consider that a lot of "hotel hotties" are from out of town and are looking for a little adventure. This kind of scene is also more laid back and less intense than your typical bar and club.
Okay, so now that I have covered steps 1 & 2, it is time for the final step:
Let's face it, despite the fact that women now consider themselves completely liberated, in general they STILL don't approach guys. Instead, they are happy to wait for YOU to approach THEM.
This begs the obvious question: How EXACTLY do you approach them?
In my book, "The Art of Approaching," I explore this subject in great detail. For instance, you will discover:
--Specific stories that you can tailor and use to start a conversation with any woman you meet. --Funny one-liners to get her laughing right away! --Tactics to get you an easy 4-6 phone numbers a night. --A step-by-step guide which teaches you to overcome any fear or nervousness you experience when it comes to meeting women! --Plus a how lot of other really great stuff :)
At the very least, I encourage you to simply walk up to these women and say "Hi." But if you want to really SUPERCHARGE your ability to meet the kind of beautiful, interesting women you have always hoped to meet, be sure to check out my book and join the scores of men who have already learned how to be successful with women.
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B Y T H E S A M E A U T H O R . . .
is the author of
The Art Of Approaching
Joseph Matthews, the author discussed in my The Art Of Approaching review, believes 10 percent of males enjoy 90 percent of the success when it comes to dating women. His aim is to put YOU into that 10 percent using 350+ pages of solid dating advice.
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