How To Pick Up Women
Article Source: Dating Books For Men. Copyright 2008
Author: Joseph Matthews
S P O T L I G H T
Joseph Matthews is the author of
The Art Of Approaching
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Having trouble picking up women? Have no fear! All you need to do is follow a few simple methods to help you get the woman of your dreams!
Want to start picking up women, but have no idea how to do so?
Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those "Dating Experts" you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn't like helping guys get laid!)
Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically-correct topic!
You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let's get started!
First of all, let's cover what you DON'T need to pick up women.
You DON'T need to be "male model" good looking.
This is the biggest mistake men make. You have to realize that close to 85% of women care more about how a man makes them FEEL, rather than how he actually LOOKS.
So if you don't think you're a good looking guy, fear not! You're not out of the game yet.
Second, you DON'T have to spend a lot of money or drive an expensive car!
Some of the best pick up artists I've ever met never spend more than $30 when on a date, and many of them didn't even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn't a very nice one!)
Most women don't care how much money you make or spend on them - IF they actually like you! And a big part of picking up women is to get them to like you, isn't that right?
Finally, you DON'T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.
Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!
When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.
Unless you're currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics - after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you've learned, you'll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!
In order to learn the quickest, you'll want to go out as often as you can - particularly when you're first starting. You don't have to go to nightclubs or other high-pressure environments to meet women, but they are great "practice grounds" because there are SO MANY women there to meet and talk to.
But regardless, make a point of going out to pick up women a certain number of times a week - after all, practice makes perfect!
When you're first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.
And the more experience you have, the more likely it is you'll be able to MASTER the art of picking up women!
All you're doing when you go out to pick up women is gaining experience!
When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and look as good as you possibly can!
(Notice here that I'm not saying you have to be "good looking." I'm saying you need to "look good." There is a big difference between the two. You don't have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance - your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)
Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you're not into fashion and don't know where to start, ask a female friend who's very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.
Dressing nicely to meet women is not mandatory - you don't NEED to do it. However, it will make the process of meeting women much easier (women do like men who take pride in their appearance). Also, the nicer your dress, the more confident you'll feel!
Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities. Attractive women are everywhere, and it's always a bad idea to let an opportunity to meet one of them slip you by!
Finally, its important to remember that a good pick up follows an easy-to-use structure. This means there's steps you can follow to get a specific result EVERY TIME you go out to meet women.
The structure is:
Find a woman.
Meet her.
Talk and Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
These four simple steps is all you need! You'll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you'll easily be able to build attraction with them too.
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B Y T H E S A M E A U T H O R . . .
Joseph Matthews is the author of
The Art Of Approaching
Joseph Matthews, the author discussed in my The Art Of Approaching review, believes 10 percent of males enjoy 90 percent of the success when it comes to dating women. His aim is to put YOU into that 10 percent using 350+ pages of solid dating advice.
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