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How To Get Laid Fast - Use The Boyfriending Technique

Article Source: Dating Books For Men. Copyright 2008
Author: John Alexander

John Alexander is the author of How To Become An Alpha Male
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Today you will learn about an important comfort-building strategy that I call "Boyfriending." Basically, this is something you can do which is usually done ONLY by the woman's boyfriend.

If you also do it, you will find it has a way of getting under the woman's radar, and it will make her feel comfortable enough around you that she will become open to the idea of sex without making you wait for a prolonged period.

The reason for this is that in order for the average woman to want to have sex with a man, she must experience feelings of comfort. It is simply not enough for her to just feel attraction for him.

Suppose that you meet a girl at a 5 o'clock happy hour. The two of you develop an immediate rapport, and you are having a great conversation. She is laughing. She is interested. You are able to entrance her, telling her interesting stories about your life. In short, you hit it off.

Then, a couple of hours later, you get hungry and you decide to invite her to grab something to eat. Dinner also goes well. Finally, the dinner ends. Now what?

At about this time, the majority of guys get confused about what to do to advance the interaction forward. The goal, usually, is to get laid, but the way ahead is often unclear.

So, the night often ends with the woman telling you something like, "Hey, I had great time meeting you. Call me. Bye!"

Unless she has developed an immediate level of comfort with you, she is going to make you wait before sex.

(If you are lucky, it might take only three dates, but with many women, you will wait for months.)

Fortunately, there is a way to surmount this problem - which I call the "Boyfriending Technique."

If you pay attention to couples that are in close relationships, you will notice that the man and woman are extremely comfortable with touching each other. In fact, so much so that they will often do seemingly gross things like brush the sleep from each other's eyes.

This is the kind of behavior that is done ONLY by people who happen to be completely comfortable with each other. When you get to the point in a relationship where you can brush the sleep from a woman's eye, you have long passed the point at which the two of you are comfortable having sex.

See where I am going with this? You can use this kind of behavior as psychological leverage to make her feel more comfortable around you.

Try this: in the middle of a conversation tell her to hold still and close her eyes. Simply pretend that there is sleep in her eye, and let her think that you just brushed it off.

Later, when the two of you have finishing eating and you leave the restaurant, tell her again to hold still. This time, with your finger, brush off some imaginary crumb of food from her lower lip.

This Boyfriending Techniqueworks wonders by sub-communicating to her that the two of you are very comfortable around each other.

It also allows you to touch her face, and in so doing, bringing your heads closer together and progressing towards a make out session.

There is also another important benefit to touching her lower lip. In this case, you are in fact touching an erogenous zone. That's right... a woman's lower lip is suffused with nerve endings, and by stimulating her lower lip you make her body release sex hormones.

Make the Boyfriending Technique part of your dating arsenal, and I guarantee you will find more success than ever before. You might just find yourself having sex within a few short hours instead of waiting several months for it to happen.

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John Alexander is the author of
How To Become An Alpha Male
John Alexander, the author discussed in my How To Become An Alpha Male review, says that while most other dating books focus on WHAT to do to please the woman, the better approach is to concentrate instead on how to BECOME the man that women respond to.
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