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Seduce Her On The First Date With The Fated Encounter Strategy

Article Source: Dating Books For Men. Copyright 2008
Author: John Alexander

John Alexander is the author of How To Become An Alpha Male
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Imagine this: that within a few hours of knowing a woman you are able to create feelings within her of a deep connection with you, and you are able to do this without resorting to complicated (and highly fallible) hypnosis tactics. Wouldn't that be worth knowing how to do?

Well, the news is good! There is actually a very easy, no-risk technique for doing this. I call it the strategy of the Fated Encounter.

Here is how this works. Every woman has within her a fantasy she carries from the time she was a little girl - a fantasy triggered by an unrelenting diet of romance movies and novels, about how fate can bring her the man of her dreams.

In a scene typical of this fantasy, the guy and the girl almost, but not quite, bump into each other on the sidewalk. But fate manages to keep them apart, and they continue on their separate ways.

Then, after a couple of years have passed, they end up living in the same apartment building. Yet after several more close calls, they still manage to slip past each other, again because of the fickle hands of fate.

These two people date others, off and on, and yet never manage to find happiness. Months go by. The man and the woman both wonder whether they will ever meet that special someone, someday...

And then, near the end of the movie, fate relents, and finally brings the pair together. Of course, the two hit it off right from the moment they set eyes on each other.

Imagine if this could be applied to real life scenarios, and that instead of having to wait until you have spent several dates, or months, courting a woman, you could make her feel comfortable enough with you to have sex, possibly at the end of the very first date?

Well, it can. You can speed up the seduction process and have the woman feeling that she is deeply connected with you simply by using my strategy of the Fated Encounter. I will now explain how it works in detail.

During your conversation with the woman, you find a way to bring up places she has been to. If you have been to those same places, you then proceed to talk about how amazing it is that the two of you could have been there at the same time and yet somehow destiny kept the two of you apart.

As an example, let's say that she shops at the local Whole Foods grocery store.

You then say, "That's awesome. I shop there as well. Imagine, we have probably seen each other there all the time!"

Another example: the two of you go to downtown LA all the time, and have probably walked past each other on several occasions.

Now you tell her, "Isn't it amazing how fate has finally brought us together?"

As the conversation goes on, you can try to talk about other coincidences, and you point out the things the two of you might have been able to do together if you had only known each other.

With this seed planted, the girl will think about those coincidences, and how "fate" has now brought you to her, and she will begin to feel as though she has known you, on some deeper psychic level, for much longer than just the few hours since you met.

You, she starts to convince herself, are the man she has been waiting for all her life.

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B Y   T H E   S A M E   A U T H O R . . .
John Alexander is the author of
How To Become An Alpha Male
John Alexander, the author discussed in my How To Become An Alpha Male review, says that while most other dating books focus on WHAT to do to please the woman, the better approach is to concentrate instead on how to BECOME the man that women respond to.
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