How To Make A Woman Trust You CompletelyArticle Source: Dating Books For Men. Copyright 2008
Author: John Alexander
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My intention here is to reveal to you a little-known secret of human persuasion that allows a woman to feel complete trust in you, and have sex with you - sometimes even on your very first date.
Obviously, for a woman to even consider having sex with a guy, she must not only be attracted to him, but she must trust him. You can look at it like this:
1. Trust Without Attraction = "Yeah, he's a really great friend and I love him to death!" (Translation: "I'll NEVER have sex with him!")
2. Attraction Without Trust = "No, I'm not a loose woman. He will simply have to wait before he gets any!"
However, if the woman feels both attraction AND trust for you, she will literally be begging you to take her home with you that night.
Take a typical scenario. Let's say it is coming up on 11 PM, and you have been with the woman since 6 that evening. Provided you have had a good rapport with her, and you have been pushing the interaction forward, you may assume that she is attracted to you.
And by the way, you should always assume the woman is attracted to you until it is proven otherwise. The reason for this is that as long as you have good body language, you have a great deal going on in your life, and you are both witty and interesting, she WILL be attracted to you.
Now you simply need to build trust. My aim is to teach you an easy and efficient way to do that.
Incidentally, this is one of the better-kept secrets of human persuasion. The most successful advertisers and salesmen make billions of dollar using this secret, and now you will be able to use it on women.
Have you ever noticed how advertisements will often mention minor defects in the products they are promoting? A good example of this involves the wildly successful Volkswagen Beetle ads from the seventies that had the huge headline: "Lemon."
The implication was that not all of the Volkswagen cars were perfect. VW took its quality inspections very seriously, to the point that it took note of even small weaknesses in the builds of its cars.
The reason for this is simple enough: if someone tells you something that appears to go against their self-interest, you tend to trust them more. It is a fundamental trait of human psychology.
So when it comes to women, it is a good idea to point out your minor flaws. Examples could be: - "I have an ugly mole on my leg. Sometimes I feel so self-conscious about it." - "I had to give a speech last week and felt so nervous I almost threw up!" - "I almost never floss my teeth, though I know I should."
Even if these are fake flaws, it works the same. By pointing them out, you create the perception of honesty within the mind of the woman.
Because she believes these minor imperfections of yours, she will also believe the MAJOR PERFECTIONS about you.
What this means is that having both attraction for you AND trust in you, later that evening she could be breathlessly panting to you, "I've never done it before with a guy this soon!"
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B Y T H E S A M E A U T H O R . . .
is the author of
How To Become An Alpha Male
John Alexander, the author discussed in my How To Become An Alpha Male review, says that while most other dating books focus on WHAT to do to please the woman, the better approach is to concentrate instead on how to BECOME the man that women respond to.
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