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How To Get Women To Approach YOU

Article Source: Dating Books For Men. Copyright 2008
Author: Joseph Matthews

Joseph Matthews is the author of The Art Of Approaching
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You ought to really enjoy this article, because I will be sharing with you a little trick I have developed that really makes it easy to meet women.

All too often, men are simply too nervous to approach a girl because they have no idea what the outcome will be.

Think about this. What goes through your mind when you see a woman you want to meet?

"Will she be receptive to me talking to her?" "Does she have a boyfriend?" "Will she find me attractive?" "Am I her type?" "Maybe she's too busy to talk to me."

No doubt you can come up with a 100 more worrying questions of this type. All of them revolving around one thing:


You have no idea how the girl you hope to approach is going to respond to you! So you get scared, because the outcome MIGHT not go your way.

Well, you should worry about this no longer, because if you use this little trick I am about to share with you, you should never have to worry about a negative response again.

This little trick is so simple. Seriously, ANYONE can do it! And it is a 100 percent fear-free tactic.

Ready for it? Here it comes...

***The Eye Contact Opener***

We all know that eye contact is important when interacting with another people. It's a core element in our communications. But something funny takes place whenever we make eye contact with another person. We become COMPELLED to respond to them in some way. When it comes to women, you can use your eye contact with her to find out if she's open to meeting you. In fact, in a certain sense, it is she who will be opening YOU!

So, this is what you do...

The next time you spot a woman you want to meet, LOCK your eyes on her! That's right, just stare at her eyes. It does not matter if she is not even looking at you.

When people are out on their travels, they will usually look around to maintain awareness of their surroundings. This is a subconscious behavior that we all do. Sooner or later, the woman you are locking onto with your eyes will look around to scan the area.

When she comes to you, her eyes will meet yours, and the two of you will be locked in eye contact.

When this happens, you simply SMILE at her.

If she then smiles back, guess what? She is OPEN TO YOU MEETING HER. If she doesn't, then you move on to someone who is.

And when she does smile back at you, just say "Hi!" If she responds, you're in! Go right into your opener.

I prefer to use this tactic in low-key situations, like in grocery stores, coffee shops, and book stores - even though this method can work in bars (as long as the lighting is good enough that she can SEE your eyes).

Very often, after you smile at her, the girl herself will say "Hi!" and then the rest is easy.

So, the next time you go out, try doing this with every woman you see. Lock your eyes onto each of them and see what happens. I guarantee that you will be surprised by the results.

For more tactics and techniques proven to help you meet tons of women, check out my book "The Art of Approaching"

In fact, with the help you'll receive from my book, you won't even have to use the Eye Contact Opener! You'll simply be able to walk up to any woman you want and meet her right away.

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B Y   T H E   S A M E   A U T H O R . . .
Joseph Matthews is the author of
The Art Of Approaching
Joseph Matthews, the author discussed in my The Art Of Approaching review, believes 10 percent of males enjoy 90 percent of the success when it comes to dating women. His aim is to put YOU into that 10 percent using 350+ pages of solid dating advice.
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